Not so cute Crushes!

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that's the thing about school crushes, 

they are cute, they give you butterflies in stomach, they make you smile from within.

a small conversation with them, simply makes your day. And if by chance, unknowingly they shower some care, then my heart goes mmmmm mmmm. 

everything seems so perfect, the other person does not even have an idea of how much they mean to you and yet without any expectations, you adore them so much. 

But everything is not so cute, once we grow up. 

because when we grow up, people tend to ignore the fact that these feelings might just be a crush or infatuation, they feel its love and that too true love (sighs!)

they let the feelings of jealousy and possessiveness overpower their liking without even realizing the fact that the other person does not even know them properly and yet they tend to have so many expectations from them.

And sorry to tell you my dear friend, expectations from unknown are the root cause of disappointments and these disappointments break their heart and later on ignites their ego and they themselves destroy the equation between the two. 

And in this whole process, they don't even realize that the person whose presence used to make them feel like everything, that person today even regrets the day of meeting them

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