Dumping Ground of my Thoughts !

Here's to all my friends!  To all my friends that were once my go-to but now are no longer than a birthday reminder on my phone. To the one's who have held me when I couldn't stand up, to the ones who bear with me and hold me tight when I cry. To the ones that let me fall -some on purpose and others to just see me grow tall.  Here's to all the friends who remember small details about me, to the ones who share me wholesome memes, to the ones who hold me even behind my back.  To the ones who tolerate my humor, to the ones who listen me rant, to the ones who cheer for me and to the ones who speak ill of me before they spoke well.  To all the ones who have been my shopping partners, to the ones who have been my food-buddies, to all the ones who have been my picture partners, to the ones who have lied to me and to the ones who have told me the harsh truths.  Here's to all the friends who I have had for years and to the ones who just walked out as quickly as they walked i

We have always heard about the bro code but a sis code should also be laid out because sisters before misters! Mentioning the rules below which are not the mainstream ones, but are those which have been left unsaid.  1.  A real sis will always tell you the best ways to deal with when a creepy guy slides into your dm. She’ll always tell you the 101 ways to avoid their calls and tips to answer their messages and how to reply to the content they share.

एक कान से सुनकर,  दूसरे से निकालना बहुत अच्छे से आता है। ग़ैरों का क्या है जनाब, कुछ भी  बोलकर निकल जाए, उनकी परवाह करना किसे आता है।  💁

that's the thing about school crushes,  they are cute, they give you butterflies in stomach, they make you smile from within. a small conversation with them, simply makes your day. And if by chance, unknowingly they shower some care, then my heart goes mmmmm mmmm.  everything seems so perfect, the other person does not even have an idea of how much they mean to you and yet without any expectations, you adore them so much.  But everything is not so cute, once we grow up.  because when we grow up, people tend to ignore the fact that these feelings might just be a crush or infatuation, they feel its love and that too true love (sighs!) they let the feelings of jealousy and possessiveness overpower their liking without even realizing the fact that the other person does not even know them properly and yet they tend to have so many expectations from them. And sorry to tell you my dear friend, expectations from unknown are the root cause of disappointments and these disappointments break

Intersectionality is the ideology which caught very much attention in the last few years. It is a concept which says that all sorts of categorizations  such as cast, creed, race, gender and class are interrelated, operate together and lead to discrimination. It highlights the fact that we generally talk about inequality based on sexuality or class or race, but the reality is that all of these parameters equally contribute in creating the melding experiences of discrimination. Feminism is in the light for promoting the social, political and personal equality of sexes and without the intersectional lens the efforts to tackle injustice against women, all go in vain as it has happened in the past. Feminism makes this movement inclusive, so that the voices of women of all races, religions, and castes are heard.   Various scenarios are recorded in history where women have become a target of concurrent sources of oppression and are still suffering. We all know that women face sexism, but it i

Every final year student right now:  “ Oh God, College is about to end, we won’t even get a proper farewell” Bringing you the lessons which I learnt in my college (umm actually 2 yrs of college & 2 yrs of corona college, huh!) #1 Not each and everyone who talks to you with a smile, who is polite with you, who considers you literally a bread and applies so much butter everyday, not even the one with whom you talk on a daily basis is your friend. More than half of the people are good to you, just because they know that they will need your help sometime or the other.  #2 Never ever bitch about the person whom you are genuinely friends with.! Even if you fight, sort it out together, there’s no need to find a third person and bitch about your friend because us friend ko Dil se bura lagta haii yaar. #3 You can be betrayed any moment, any time, without any alarm, even from the one whom you think is your bestfriend so keep your eyes and ears always open and DO NOT EVER EXPECT ANYTHING FROM